Nessy-messy

I'm turned on by a combination of a sharp mind, charisma, and self-confidence. I value sincerity, a good sense of humor, and the ability to have interesting conversations. In a relationship, what matters to me are physical affection, mutual flirting, bold initiative, and sincere care for one another. What turns me off are lies, arrogance, a lack of respect for other people's boundaries, and passive aggression. I value openness and mutual respect.