Kindness and generosity, intelligence, attention, care! When they want to make you happy. Honesty, respect. A special attitude. Not respect, greed, stinginess, stupidity. Free riders.This is not a list of complaints, a map of minefields.– lies. deliberate, systematic lies, -Greed –The desire to get more, give less. repels the lack of sincerity, authenticity. trying to be someone he is not..