The safe people of themselves and with a sense of humor excite me. ""I love exploring new things in bed.""I get the role games and fantasies.""I am attracted to creative and passionate people."". Lack of respect: mutual respect is fundamental in any sexual relationship. You should not like aggressive behaviors or make you feel uncomfortable.Routine: always doing the same can be boring. It is important to innovate and try new things to keep the spark.Lack of communication.